Discernment is key, enabling you to stand in your own strength and work on your self-confidence. It is the ability to act and make choices in alignment with your deepest needs. An empowering way to becoming aware of yourself, who you are and what you want in life. Only then are you able to make choices that are best for you.
Throughout our life, we are often challenged between what we ‘think’ we should do, and what we ‘feel’ is best for us. I’ve been around the block a few times myself and know what it means to overcome challenges which take you out of balance. Hence, practicing discernment becomes necessary, to act in the advantage of your personal growth.
Take time to go within, and align yourself with the wisdom of your soul. Don’t let yourself be pushed or pulled into any situation which you might regret later. Keep yourself from responding immediately.
Consider your decisions, especially when they have significant consequences. Make choices you feel confident about and give a sense of inner peace.
Engage with Kindred Spirits
Discernment also means engaging with people and situations you feel in alignment with. People who support your values and goals. After all, ‘what goes around, comes around’ and ‘what we give attention grows’.
Sometimes situations and people have served a great purpose in our life, but at some point, it is time to let go and move on. It may appear you are losing friends, in essence you are opening yourself to new connections that reflect your being. When your choices are made in alignment with your heart, the universe will always generate new opportunities suitable for you and your life path.
Connecting with kindred spirits is a very empowering way to keep believing in yourself and your goals in life. Today, social media offers us new and wonderful ways to connect with like-minded people all over the world. People who enhance the connectedness with our heart and spirit, which is a joyful and empowering experience. Still, discernment is key. Energy vampires are everywhere, which is not always visible at first sight! An easy and practical way to practice in your communications is: “Does the energy flow back to me, or does it drain me?”
This becomes even more important to High Sensitive Persons, who get drained very easily, as they absorb the energy of other people around them so naturally. Preserving your energy is a must to stay balanced. Besides choosing wisely with ‘whom’ and ‘what’ you connect, it is equally sensible to distance yourself from anything that drains your spirit. Retaining yourself from anything which does not add value to your life, is an excellent way to remain peaceful and stay focused.
Practice how to apply discernment in your life. You will be surprised how everything becomes easier and more flowing. The more clear and firm the decisions you make are, the greater will be your personal empowerment and freedom.
Go get it!